Ask her if she's using some piece of equipment near her.Tell her you want to recommend a good routine for your sister and she looks like she knows what she's doing, would she mind sharing hers.
Im in the same place at 30 except i havent had a relationship yet The one that im pretty sure id be victim too if i ever get in a relationship is the first one When you go all that time without effection or validaiton id imagine any girl that would show interest in me id probably get overly attatched to its human nature..
Well, my first suggestion would be don't go from seeing a girl you like to asking her out. The gym gives many ways to strike up a conversation.
You should try to catch her eye first, not in a creepy staring-her-down sort of way, but almost by accident. Ask her if she needs a spot if she's lifting heavy weights.
As I reach my 27th birthday, I'm come to realize that the vast majority of my dating life has been condensed into the last couple years of my life.
I was never successful in dating in grade school, so I never even bothered trying in college.