It’s a game that can’t be maintained and guarantees dissatisfaction for both parties.
The goal of dating is to find someone who wants what you want, and wants that with you.
You see, most guys have idea about what to do on a first date. The following is a list of 40 of the best first date tips ever assembled—from some of the greatest dating coaches, relationship coaches, matchmakers, lifestyle coaches, and social experts on the planet! It has some incredibly interesting fact about first dates! Are you ready for a committed relationship or dating for fun?
They don’t know where to go, what to say, how to act, and most importantly, they don’t know how to set up a second date! Take their tips and their advice and really soak them in. Take a moment to do your mental preparation before you meet your date. Knowing the answer to these questions allows you to engage in a manner consistent with your desires.
Never invite a woman on a formal ‘date’ if all you are looking to do is engage in one or more episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with her.
Telling a girl how nervous you are is not going to make her attracted to you, of course she will feel sorry for you, and she will be extra ‘nice’ to you throughout the date, but don’t think for a second any of that means anything more than her display of sympathy for you.
We use the word “nice” when describing something we have no real passion for, such as a “nice cup of tea.” Think about things you adore, that excite you or inspire you and then see if the word “nice” can articulate those emotions.
Replace the word “nice”, “lovely” or even “pretty” with something more dynamic and that focuses on a more detailed attribute of hers.
The conversation will flow easier and far more naturally if you really listen instead of thinking ahead of yourself for the next thing to say!
Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.