He reached out to let me know how disappointed he was with my comment and that there were plenty of good Black men.So I challenged him to introduce me to 10 GBM that are over 38.Upon reflection, I realize what made the interaction surprising is that the lady is White.
A Black man on twitter helped me prove my position.He hit me back with “ok, so the over 38 thing might be an issue”. PAUSE: As a side note, when I was on MSNBC’s Morning Joe last week I was asked about dating and said, “Men over 35 and Single are single for a reason.Either they are undateable or they are not interested in being in a relationship”. The only thing I would change is making the age 38 instead of 35. Don’t just take my word for it, talk to some Single women you know and ask them about finding a GBM. So anyone who takes issue with what I am saying here about good Black men, instead of a nasty tweet, please send me a list of 10 good, available Black men that are over 38 and are interested in a monogamous relationship and I will match them up with some of really great women. It's frustrating and emasculating for Asian males.It's much easier for a White male to date an Asian female, than for an Asian male to date a White female.Furthermore, mainstream media gives Asian males few role models to emulate in social and romantic situations. This is a breakthrough role for an Asian male, and I believe indicative of a shift in societal perceptions, even if the ratings for the show are challenged.In recent years I have been noticing an increase in the number of younger Asian male-White female couples, as well as non-traditional interracial couples of all combinations.To make my point, I continued with a true story about a girlfriend who called one morning to set me up with a guy she went to college with.She had bumped into him about a month prior and found out he was recently divorced.She went on to describe him as a handsome, Harlem doctor who spent a lot of time doing volunteer work in Haiti.PAUSE: I just want to say that most red blooded American women of any race are going to start salivating at the thought of dating a doctor. Needless to say I was on board, so when she told me she would tell him about me later in the week, I panicked.