When he initiates and is successful with you, his power grows as well as his desire & ability to commit.
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He calls, he texts, but you have other things to do, other messages to respond to, other dates to go on, so you’ll get back to him whenever you get back to him.
When the roles shift and she starts “making it happen” and he sits back and receives it kills the passion and polarity of the relationship, and bonding stops all together.
She doesn’t feel supported or desired, and at best it becomes platonic. John Gray was “don’t pursue him, more than he is pursuing you”.
The slower you go with intimacy, emotional and physical, the more anticipation that builds up, and the more you will both want to see and know each other. Your options were open, you were fully committed to having relationships only on your own terms, and you had all the power.
So, even when you meet someone great that could really “be it”, I say keep doing what you were doing before you fall into like/love with them.